TURNING 30 !!!

              

In this globalized world, people are slowly and steadily migrating to urban areas from semi-urban or rural areas because urban areas are providing them with new innovative job opportunities. Not only men, but educated women are also migrating to metropolitan cities. These women are getting accustomed to the pace at which the city lifestyle goes on every day. Then after spending around six months or so in the same city, these women start thinking themselves as an important contributory citizen of that city. They live together in a PG or a Service-Women hostel in their initial periods. Why should men always have all the fun! They also drink, smoke, and go out for movies, tour, shopping, and party-out at discotheques. Then after few months, they get a partner either of same sex or of different sex to enjoy their hidden desires. Most women go for a live-in relationship with their boyfriends. In metro cities, homosexuality also exists among women, but most of them become bisexual after their marriage, though they never forget their lesbian partner so easily. They enjoy it in the absence of their respective hubby.

Naina came to this city with lots of dreams in her eyes. She is a very dedicated employee for her organization. While working for that organization, she realized that she is also growing old. She is reaching the age of 30 years now. In India, the ideal phase for a woman to get married is between 25 yrs to 28 years. After 25 years, a woman’s body become fully matured enough to satisfy her partner. Naina is too concerned now. She now takes some extra care to maintain her cleavages. In India, men always give good responses to a woman who has a good physique, though a man hardly shows that courage to confess that in public. Naina has a boyfriend and as usual she is in a live-in relationship, but, a live-in relationship is not a marriage. Men realize it faster after a one month sexual intercourses, but women become too emotionally attached in a live-in relationship. In India, still many women regard live-in relationship as a safest alternative of marriage, but men just regards it as a time-pass with their girlfriends. Men never become matured till they get married to someone both legally and ritually.

There is a negative psychology among many Indian women that after getting married to someone at around 25 years of age or so and then becoming a mother before 30 years of age, life becomes a boring assignment for them. It is not like that. If you have talent and education under your belly, as an educated woman, you have lots and lots to contribute for the human society at the root level itself on a larger scale to build a strong foundation for women empowerment which will ultimately strengthen the Indian economy for our future generation to come. Naina came out with a nice idea to make a documentary film on ‘Life after 30’ to motivate the women to do something even after their 30 years of age. The idea was appreciated by all but not the idea generating person. Believe it or not, the concept of glass ceiling still exists in corporate sector, mostly in India. That’s why; the attrition rate of women employees in Indian corporate sector is still so high. If you protest against office politics, you become a victim of that dirty politics and as a result, either you are forced to resign or you will resign by yourself to maintain your high self-esteem in front of your own soul.

She fell in love with a painter and also enjoyed him in some lovely midnights, but she is yet to forget her ex-lover who promised to marry her while he was in a live-in relationship with her. Now, he is going to get married to some other woman who belongs to a big business family. In India, son or daughter of a businessman always have a desire to get married to daughter or son of another businessman to expand their ancestral business much faster than ever. They have learnt this strategy from the Pandavas of Mahabharata only. So, you can hardly blame them. Naina tried her level best for the last time but ended up the conversation by giving slang languages to her ex-boyfriend and his parents inside their own house only. Naina is now a woman of 30 years of age. In India, if a woman crosses the age of 30 years and if she is neither a celebrity nor a rich person, then it becomes very hard for her to find a decent man who will be willing to marry her. Will anyone ever marry Naina? To know the answer of this question and to visualize the real condition of the working women of our young generation in terms of their uncontrolled urban lifestyles, you have to spare some time to watch “TURNING 30”, which features Gul Panag, Purav Kohli and others.